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Gary LeVox Recalls Childhood Heartbreak

Like most people, Rascal Flatts' Gary LeVox has had his share of personal ups and downs. His parents divorced when he was eight years old, and his mother remarried two years later. When he was 18, his mother and stepfather announced they, too, were divorcing.

"I was shattered. I wanted a father," LeVox reveals in an candid interview in the latest issue of Reader's Digest. "My stepdad hasn't been part of my life since then. Sometimes I think about reaching out to him."

Through the difficult times, LeVox did have something to keep him going. Growing up in Columbus, Ohio, he could always count on music, saying it was "all that mattered" to him.

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"Whether at home or church, music was what we did as a family," he recalls. "Every Saturday night, I stayed with my grandparents. My grandpa played guitar, my cousin [and current Rascal Flatts bandmate Jay DeMarcus] played piano, my grandmother played the spoons, and I sang. I memorized songs like the spiritual hymn 'The Old Rugged Cross' and sang it over and over. My grandmother was Pentecostal, and she'd say, 'Secular music is from the devil,' but she thought country music was OK. I wasn't allowed to listen to the Kinks, but I could listen to Merle Haggard."

LeVox also recounts his experiences working with the Ohio Department of Mental Retardation, a job he held for ten years.

"I was responsible for 85 people at one time, teaching them skills so they could live on their own and get jobs. I became their father, their best friend, and their confidant."

LeVox, who married wife Tara in 1999, admits that one regret he has is that his grandparents passed on before ever getting to hold his children, Brittany, eight, and Brooklyn, five, or to see him perform. When it comes to his kids, LeVox freely admits he's -- in his own words -- a sap.

"It's hard to remember life before my daughters. Some days I'll be singing in the studio and think of them and just start crying. It's like, 'Man up, Gary, come on.'"

The 38-year-old says that when it comes to Rascal Flatts' live concerts, like the title of the trio's upcoming album, their fans are 'Unstoppable.'

"We've had women schedule their C-sections around our tour dates," says LeVox. "If you have great songs, people come out to see you."

Gary LeVox, Jay DeMarcus and Joe Don Rooney will release 'Unstoppable' on April 7, and will kick off the tour of the same name on June 5, stopping -- briefly, as the title suggests -- in more than 60 cities over the next two years.

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lilrascal77

gary levox is a amazing singer and is my favorite member of rascal flatts and i like rascal flatts and gary both since day 1 and he has the voice of a angel and rascal flatts are the best country band out there and gary i could share my dad with you and you are a great guy and you sing like a angel and are so cute and i can say im a gary levox fan 4 life ever since day 1 and a member of rascal flatts fan club

March 20 2009 at 7:04 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
riesar30

Gary Levox is an amazing singer, when he sings it touches your heart. If you have gone through heartache whether it be emotional or physical somehow his voice heals the wounds. Rascal Flatts is an amazing group..:)

March 14 2009 at 9:23 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
fbelysium

SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT GUY TO ME, SO DEVOTED TO HIS CHILDREN AFTER HAVING A HARD LIFE AND HELPED OUT WITH THE MENTALLY DISABLED. I WISH SOMEONE WAS THAT DEVOTED TO ME.

March 12 2009 at 4:28 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
strawbrycustard

Divorce isn't that big of a deal. Ya it sucks but whatever you get over it.
Poor Gary obviously had a rough time with it but I'm sure it has made him that much better of father to his daughters. You live and learn.

March 12 2009 at 3:59 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
trdaggers

Everybody had a tough childhood in one way or another. Give me a break!

March 12 2009 at 1:13 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Vickie

I have to say Gary is sooooooo Hot, Rascal Flatt;s music is the BOMB

March 12 2009 at 12:04 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
nsg1111

I really cant imagine how you people who make such rude hateful remarks can do it. Really, isn't there enough mess going on in this country and people dying everyday from not being able to make it, and still, you can run down a guy who has had enough sense to just move on, have feelings, and yes, everyone has problems once in awhile, but I wouldn't brag on a divorce or on a good marriage. Its plain none of our business and if you don't like Rascal Flatts, then listen to someone else. OK. He is making the money and you people are just running your mouths. OK Now, who has the sense and who has none.........& don't need to name names. Get a life and go to Church and worship God since you don't know how to act even online to someone you don't even know. I pray that one day all of you who make those hateful disgraceful remarks will have something come to you and remind you of how rude you were to someone's feelings. Its for sure, Rascal doesn't need any of you to show up at his concerts, he has sold out concerts. So, someone is doing something right!!!!!!! Love, live and forgive yourself. OK.....BTW, that's how he makes all his money, singing thru his nose, so maybe you should try it, lol. Whoever you are!!!!!!

March 12 2009 at 12:01 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
lrpro17

I love Rascal Flatts, and I wish I could tell Gary he is probably the man he is today becouse of what he went through growing up ,and the support he got from his grandparents.I,m glad you have the band and fame you have ,so be happy as hell and never ever look back at your past as being a heart crush , but (was) just another phase in the life of Gary .

March 12 2009 at 8:56 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Patricia

Gary , I got the best daddy in the world and want to share him with you ,he's 80 yrs old and about sharp as a tac , loves to fish , hunt and stay in the woods alot , he lives in Blythe ,Ga , about 30 miles south of Augusta ,Ga. in the ( over behind the woods , lol ) we get together there at daddy's house with all our friends and families and have a country blast ,you can reachh me at Palee55@aol.com , you will not regret it man ,,by the way I love ya music am 60 yr old female ,married to the best man on earth and raising a granddaughter , happy ,happy,happy.

March 11 2009 at 8:59 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
philllei

dont like rascal flats all sound the same voice to high reminds me of father daughter the Kindalls Kix and dunn Geo Jones j cash thats country Music

March 11 2009 at 8:59 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply