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Tim McGraw Lets Go of Anger

Tim McGrawTim McGraw has released ten studio albums and scored 22 No. 1 hits, making him one of the most successful country artists of all time. Still, in spite of his overwhelming success, he has spent much of his career fighting with his label, Curb Records. But now, Tim says he is putting it all to rest.

"I didn't want to battle anymore," he tells Nashville's Tennessean newpaper. "You get in your own little world and sometimes you don't realize you're the only one battling."

Still, with an impressive tally of 44 Top 10 singles in the past 16 years, and seven albums that have achieved multi-platinum status, Tim has not won a major award in six years. And that, he says, is significant. "I'm blessed, and I don't like to complain about awards and nominations," says the superstar. "I do think it makes a difference to your fans, though. Someone may say, 'Nobody remembers who won last year,' and that's true, but there are fans who watch the awards and if someone isn't nominated they think, 'Maybe they're on their way out.' It does affect the mindset of fans, and the people in the industry know that or they wouldn't try to manipulate it. What's the criteria for Entertainer of the Year, anyway?"

He may be a crowd favorite, headlining major sold-out tours, but Tim acknowledges that the man offstage was at one time a stark contrast to the man his fans saw. Admittedly someone who was good at holding a grudge, Tim has now found freedom in letting it all go. "There was some legitimate anger and some illegitimate anger, and a lot of times I should have just shut up and sang instead of being worried about what someone said about my wife [Faith Hill] in the paper, or what someone on a radio station was saying," he acknowledges. "I probably had some legitimate gripes that I handled the wrong way. Plus, I drank too much for a while. I've been sober for two years now, and that's done a lot to help me let go of a lot of things."

Tim McGraw, Faith HillIt's his wife's own multi-platinum-selling career that unexpectedly stirred some of Tim's animosity, but not because of jealousy. "There was a time when I thought, and there's still a tinge of truth to it, that when Faith and I got married, there was this thing where people liked the idea at first, and then they didn't like the idea that both of us were successful," he reveals. "So they were going to figure out how to knock one of us down. I got the attitude in my mind that that's what was going on, and I fiercely defended her, to the point where I ticked a lot of people off. And if you're in a high-profile situation where you feel like you're fighting windmills everywhere you turn, it starts getting dark to you."

Now happily shedding his bitterness, Tim finds yet another creative outlet -- acting -- helps keep him in balance. "Acting and music, one helps the other," he explains. "As an actor and as a singer in the studio or onstage, you're trying to create empathy. With both of them, you're creating these scenes and wanting someone to attach themselves to the character. In acting, I've seen myself get better. But I feel like I'm about 30 percent as good as I think I can be. It's like with singing, when I go into the studio and have these notions of, 'This is how I'm going to sing this song.' Then I hear it back and ... it's just me. There I am again.' I just want to be good."

On the heels of his wildly successful movie, 'The Blind Side,' Tim has just wrapped his next film, 'Love Don't Let Me Down,' with Gwyneth Paltrow. He's back in the studio finishing his final album for Curb, and is on the road with his Southern Voice tour, along with Lady Antebellum, Lost Trailers and Love and Theft.

Tim and Faith are acting as co-hosts for the upcoming 'Nashville Rising' concert on June 22, benefiting flood victims in and around Nashville.

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portmix56

Tim is an average singer...just came along and was willing to wink & wiggle. Faith's voices is better, but she slept her way into the music business...like others. There are more talented singers & musicians to support by CD sales. Glad we don't hear much about them these days, wish we didn't hear anything about their "anger" and lives.

June 17 2010 at 1:39 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
ellenandmike528

I like artists because of their music not there political views.

June 15 2010 at 12:08 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
CABQ

I think Tim's a wonderful singer and puts on an amazing show. He delivers to his fans over and over again, and he's completely underrated by the music establishment. I would love to see him get the recognition he has worked so hard for and so richly deserves. And what kind of husband would he be if he didn't defend his wife? I think they're both great!

June 14 2010 at 11:05 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
lucyzapico

i am a fan of both of Tim Mcgraw&Faith Hill they are both awsome&amazing singers i have all their cds. love you Faith&Tim,

June 13 2010 at 11:31 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
lindaloulouap11

I've followed Tim McGraw's music since 1994. He is still the best in my book! I'm glad to hear he is making positive changes for himself and his family!

June 13 2010 at 10:21 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
beachamgrnv2

Well I was surprised when I read that they were for Obama, I hope they don't agree with how he is treating America now, leading her to be a sodialist country, and they might have the money to pay the high taxes for the money he has spent but I sure don't have it.But I like their singing,but George Jones is my favorite.

June 13 2010 at 1:22 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
greer463

Regardless of what side of the political fence they stand...he is only saying that he is letting his anger go on things he now feels are not as important as they once were. And no matter if you like him or not, or the fact he may not have won any awards that we see recently on the “oh so great MUSIC AWARD shows”...he is still a great artist and works very hard. Unless you have walked in someone shoes I wouldn't make judgment on what they do. And if you knew him or his beautiful wife Faith you would know that they both had many years of extremely hard work to get to where they are. They didn't wake up one day and have fame and fortune; it came after working and paying their dues in that industry....and still does. Let me just ask, would you want your boss to only award you good merit if you were on the same political side they were? No, I’m sure you would file discrimination against them. So why bother yourself on where he stands...it's really none of your business. Sounds like you really don't like him or his music, which I’m pretty sure he could care less. And if you had millions would you not spend a little on yourself? Just one more...you have to love the oldies and if I recall he actually put a little in one of his songs and oh yeah, bought one of their houses! So for you posters...get off your political, financial and living in the past keyboards and go let everyone know who you voted for, how much money you make and turn your radio up with your favorite song and see what kind of response you get. I DARE YOU!!!

June 13 2010 at 12:16 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Heavenbound1220

Joe ... I may seem like I am dissing Johnny and Hank while in truth I am dissing screaminfist' taste in music those artist were top notch in THIER day but not anymore! Sorry if my ego bothered you .

June 12 2010 at 11:18 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
joeswatzell

FIXED MY TYPOS ...sorry
Wow. You folks amaze me. Carole hates 'Republitards" because they aren't tolerant like SHE is. She paints all with the same brush and says..."Only your kind hates people because of their political orientation. There are many artists I enjoy regardless of political affiliation. Your attitude is completely unAmerican. You are no better than the Taliban. Our country can do without your ilk. Your post makes you appear backwoods stupid."
Way to be accepting Carole.
HeavenBound(?) bashes screaminfist because he doesn't like Tim. She even disses Johnny Cash and Hank Williams. WOW...why not just curse the baby Jesus? Y'all need to get over yourselves.

June 12 2010 at 11:07 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
joeswatzell

Wow. You folks amaze me. Carole hates 'Republitards" because they aren't tolerant like SHE is. she paints all withthe same brush and says..."Only your kind hates people because of their political orientation. There are many artists I enjoy regardless of political affiliation. Your attitude is completely unAmerican. You are no better than the Taliban. Our country can do without your ilk. Your post makes you appear backwoods stupid." Way to be acceoting Carole.
HeavenBound(?) bashes screaminfist because he doesn't like Tim. She even disses Johnny Cash and Hank Williams. WOW...why not just curse the baby Jesus? Y'all need to get over yourselves.

June 12 2010 at 11:04 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply